The Labels We Carry and the Hem That Heals

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Some stories in Scripture find us where we bleed. The woman with the issue of blood is one of them. Her story is not a distant parable; it is a mirror held up to every soul that has ever been weighed down by a label that clings like dust to the skin. Unclean, they called her. Not by name, not by lineage, not by her laughter or her tears. Just the label. The verdict. The thing she couldn’t seem to shake.

For twelve years she lived beneath that name. Twelve years of isolation, of being defined by what was wrong instead of what was still right within her. Every step she took carried the echo of rejection. Every face she passed turned away. She was not supposed to touch or belong. Yet something within her refused to die, a whisper of faith that said, “If I can just touch the hem of His garment…”

That whisper of hope is where freedom begins. Not in what others call us, not in what we have done, but in the reach itself, the quiet, trembling reach toward healing, toward wholeness, toward Him.

We all carry labels that were never meant to last. Some were handed to us by others: divorced, broken, addict, failure, too much, not enough. Some we picked up ourselves and wore until they became part of our reflection. But these names are not eternal. They are temporary tags attached to an old identity, and the touch of Jesus will always be stronger than the stain of our past.

I have worn my own labels too long, the kind that make you keep your head down in worship. The kind that whisper you are disqualified before you even start to pray. But grace meets us there, in the places where shame has taken root, and calls us to lift our eyes again.

The woman did not ask for permission. She did not wait for the crowd to make space. She pushed through. She reached out with trembling hands and brushed the edge of His robe. In that instant, silence filled the noise. The bleeding stopped. The shame stopped. The story changed.

And in that stillness, she became whole.

When Jesus turned and saw her, He did not call her unclean. He did not remind her of who she had been. He said, Daughter. One word, and every label she had carried fell to the ground.

That is what divine love does; it renames you.

You are not what happened to you. You are not what they said about you. You are not your sin or your sickness or your struggle. You are a child of God, restored by the same power that once flowed through the hem of a garment and stopped a lifetime of suffering.

If you are still wearing a label that feels too heavy to peel off, start where she did. Reach. Whisper His name through the noise. Push through the crowd of your own doubt and fear. The hem is still there, close enough to touch.

And when you do, you will feel it, the quiet unraveling of shame, the loosening of what once held you bound, the tender voice that still calls you by your truest name.

You will find that the only label worth keeping is the one He threads across your heart: Loved. Redeemed. Free.

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    Debbie Hess

    Just for me; so encouraging!

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